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MY SURPRISE PROPOSAL TO RAYVON OWEN
A few years ago, I was struggling with mental illness. I was depressed and felt hopeless-especially about love, and relationships. During those times, one of the things that helped me was the music of Demi Lovato. She has remained an important part of my life, which is why it was so perfect that while at her concert last night I:
PROPOSED TO RAYVON OWEN!!!
Rayvon, I can’t wait to spend the rest of my life with you, and I am beyond thrilled to officially call you my fiancé!
Like I said last night, when I asked you to marry me, I never thought that I would be fully open to love again. Then you came into my life, and I have never been the same. You inspire me and push me to be a better and more open person, and you always show me compassion and patience. I know it’s not always easy being in a relationship like ours-especially when society and even some friends and family have fought to push us apart-but if there’s one thing I know for certain, it is that love is what life is all about, and your love makes my life complete.
You’ve made me a better man and I’ll forever be grateful to you for loving me unconditionally. I know with all of my heart that Tom would be so happy for us, and I thank you for honoring and respecting the fact that he will always be a part of my life.
I have to give a huge thank you to Demi for being a supportive friend and for helping make last night possible. It was one of the greatest moments of my life! I also want to thank you for all that you have done and continue to do for young people, and particularly the LGBT community. Your heart, your voice, and your activism make everyone feel accepted, less alone, more empowered and more hopeful.
Thank you to everyone out there who has supported me, as well as my relationship with Rayvon. Your support through the years has not gone unnoticed and I would not be where I am without all of you.
To anyone out there who struggles with feeling worthy of love, I want to remind you that you are not alone. For the longest time, I doubted that I would ever deserve love. I wondered if my past would keep someone from loving me. But it’s possible. You are worthy of love. There will always be people who will try to keep you down, but there will be far more people out there who will accept you, for all that you are. Never forget who you are, or what you really want in life. Remember that it’s YOUR life, and that anything is possible.
Twitter: ShaneBitney
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Відео

ACCIDENTAL ACTIVIST
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Becoming an advocate for LGBT equality was totally unexpected and completely life-changing. I never imagined that I would travel the world, sharing my story, mostly because I never thought I had anything worth saying. Finally speaking up for myself and fighting for equality have brought so much joy and meaning to my life. I truly believe that I have found my purpose in life; I owe it to myself,...
ADVENTURES IN UNCLE-ING IN TEXAS
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I recently spent some time with my nephew Maverik in Texas and as you can imagine from watching this video, I am worn out. Being an uncle is a tough job, but somebody's gotta do it! I'm grateful it's me. :) I hope you enjoy the vlog! - Shane ­­­­ ­-­ Please make sure to LIKE, COMMENT, and SHARE the video and subscribe to my channel. :) ­­­­ ­-­ OTHER PLACES TO FIND ME: Twitter: Shan...
NYC PRIDE: IN THE THICK OF IT
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I documented my trip to NYC for PRIDE I loved seeing where the LGBT movement in the U.S. really began. I hope you enjoy! - Shane ­­ Please make sure to LIKE, COMMENT, and SHARE the video and subscribe to my channel. :) ­­ OTHER PLACES TO FIND ME: Twitter: ShaneBitney Instagram: ShaneBitneyCrone Facebook: Facebook.com/ShaneBitneyCroneOfficial ­­ BUSINESS INQUIRIES, PUBL...
GRATITUDE WHISPER CHALLENGE OUTTAKES (W/ TRAVIS BRYANT)
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In my latest video, I attempted the whisper challenge with my hilarious friend, Travis Bryant. We put our own unique spin on the challenge to keep it fresh, entertaining (I hope!), and fun and boy did we have fun! So much fun, in fact, that I had to release another video with the outtakes. Please don't forget to LIKE, COMMENT, and SUBSCRIBE. :) Enjoy! ­­ CHECK OUT THE FULL VIDEO HERE! ua-cam.co...
GRATITUDE "WHISPER" CHALLENGE (W/ TRAVIS BRYANT)
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Sometimes when life isn't going how we want it to it's difficult to focus on the things that we are grateful for. So who better to name off a few of the things that I'm grateful for than with the eternally optimistic, Travis Bryant in our first collab together as we take on... THE "WHISPER" CHALLENGE! I hope you enjoy! ­­ CHECK OUT OUR VIDEO ON TRAVIS'S CHANNEL! ua-cam.com/video/dkNMaPlRowQ/v-d...
LOVE WINS: WITNESSING HISTORY
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Last week was by far one of the most memorable times of my life as I witnessed history being made when the Supreme Court ruled in favor of nationwide marriage equality. I'm honored to share these moments with you in this week's vlog! I hope you enjoy! - Shane ­­ Please make sure to LIKE, COMMENT, and SHARE the video and subscribe to my channel. :) ­­ OTHER PLACES TO FIND ME: Twitter: twitter.co...
MY FIRST VLOG: CELEBRATING PRIDE!
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I'm excited to share my first vlog! It includes footage from a couple of recent Pride festivals I attended: Los Angeles and Louisville, Kentucky (where I had the honor of being grand marshal, which I still can't believe)! I hope you enjoy! - Shane ­­ Please make sure to LIKE, COMMENT, and SHARE the video and subscribe to my channel. :) ­­ SONG FEATURED: "Take Off" by UA-cam.com/ColeenMcMahon ­­...
10 EASY WAYS TO BE HAPPIER
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I recently gathered a group of friends and asked them what they do to make themselves feel happy. I hope these tips will help you too! ­­ Please make sure to LIKE, COMMENT, and SHARE the video and subscribe to my channel. I post videos every Friday! ­­ Here's the first installment of my new venture posting weekly videos on UA-cam! The video might surprise some people because I share more of my ...
Raising Money for The Trevor Project for My Birthday
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For my birthday this year I partnered with Represent.com and designed a limited edition t-shirt and sweatshirt to raise awareness and money for The Trevor Project. This invaluable organization saves lives every day by providing a 24-7 toll-free suicide hotline, in addition to comfort and assistance to LGBT and questioning youth who are bullied, lonely, or depressed. I know what it is like to wa...
BRIDEGROOM TRAILER
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BRIDEGROOM gives an intensely personal edge to the ongoing debate over the legal rights of same-sex couples. Interviews, photos and video footage all testify to the uncommon connection that drew together Shane Bitney Crone and Tom Bridegroom. For six years they remained united despite extreme challenges from both family and society, until a tragic accident tears apart their dreams. Now one must...
SCOTUS RULING - HOPE WILL NEVER BE SILENT
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www.Facebook.com/ShaneBitneyCroneOfficial I planned on uploading this video a few weeks ago, but unfortunately I wasn't able to. "Hope will never be silent." These relevant and inspiring words come from one of our nation's most prominent LGBT civil rights leaders. Harvey Milk believed in a country, a world, that would honor the God-given rights of all individuals, gay or straight. And today, ou...
PROUD TO LOVE
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Please leave a video response telling me who or what you're #ProudToLove :) www.Facebook.com/ShaneBitneyCroneOfficial ShaneBitney
Sara Bareilles "BRAVE" - By Coleen McMahon feat. Shane Bitney Crone
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My best friend, Coleen McMahon and I were recently moved by the song "Brave" (originally recorded by Sara Bareilles). The message of this song is to be proud of who you are and brave enough to stand up for what you believe in. We felt inspired to record our own version of the song and make a silly video in hopes of furthering this message. I was scared to do this ( because I am not a profession...
IT GETS BETTER
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IT GETS BETTER
Want to know what Jesus said about homosexuality?
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Want to know what Jesus said about homosexuality?
CONSIDER DOING THIS FOR YOUR BIRTHDAY? #LoveIsLouder
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CONSIDER DOING THIS FOR YOUR BIRTHDAY? #LoveIsLouder
NO FREEDOM UNTIL WE ARE EQUAL
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NO FREEDOM UNTIL WE ARE EQUAL
IT COULD HAPPEN TO YOU
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IT COULD HAPPEN TO YOU
Coleen McMahon "Beautiful Boy"
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Coleen McMahon "Beautiful Boy"
Tom Bridegroom with Coleen McMahon "The Christmas Song"
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Tom Bridegroom with Coleen McMahon "The Christmas Song"
Tom Bridegroom & Matthew's Minstrels "The General"
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Tom Bridegroom & Matthew's Minstrels "The General"
Tom Bridegroom's Younger Years Slide Show
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Tom Bridegroom's Younger Years Slide Show
Tom Bridegroom & Friends Slide Show
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Tom Bridegroom & Friends Slide Show
Tom Bridegroom's Los Angeles Memorial Reception
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Tom Bridegroom's Los Angeles Memorial Reception
Tom and Shane Memorial Slide Show
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Tom and Shane Memorial Slide Show
This video contains music that was played during the opening of Tom Bridegroom's memorial service.
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This video contains music that was played during the opening of Tom Bridegroom's memorial service.
Coleen McMahon Performing "Beautiful Boy" at Tom Bridegroom's Los Angeles Memorial Service
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Coleen McMahon Performing "Beautiful Boy" at Tom Bridegroom's Los Angeles Memorial Service
Tom Bridegroom's Celebration of Life Video Montage
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Tom Bridegroom's Celebration of Life Video Montage

КОМЕНТАРІ

  • @shawnmorymcmillion
    @shawnmorymcmillion 5 днів тому

    Tap. . .Tap. . .Tap. . .

  • @shawnmorymcmillion
    @shawnmorymcmillion 5 днів тому

    My beloved uncle was murdered because he was Gay…it NEVER occurred to my grandmother to NOT invite his partner to the funeral, the wake, and everything associated with saying goodbye to him. I am so sorry that you lost Tom and his family was so horrible to you and your family. Much love.

  • @BoredBob
    @BoredBob 17 днів тому

    I once believed that we as a country had matured and had started to move past this. Instead we elected it........ I am truly sorry.......

  • @timpekarek9159
    @timpekarek9159 Місяць тому

    I pray that people who need to see this message, find their way here.

  • @Eurolo
    @Eurolo Місяць тому

    I want this song with the beautiful voice from Tommy in Spotify.

  • @vigneshgvs
    @vigneshgvs Місяць тому

    Tom and Shane - did a great thing for the gay community all over the world. Thanks for being there! Love from an indian gay!

  • @diannestrong9441
    @diannestrong9441 3 місяці тому

    I just finished watching your story on Tubi. I have not known of this. I can say that I am sorry. What an amazing story. Tom was a beautiful soul and so are you. Your parents and friends are wonderful. I am so sorry and thank you for sharing. I have two sons. I would just want them to be happy. Isn’t that is what’s important. 🙏🏾❤️❤️, tap tap tap

  • @yourrour-d3r
    @yourrour-d3r 3 місяці тому

    i watched your bridegroom documentary nov.8.2024] i'm confused about my sexuality i first heard gay word at school but i realizw its beautiful meaning at grade 12 and since then i feel like i m gay too coz as i look past i always love the guys purely had crush on them i m now 21 yrs currently studying CA from NEPAL everyday i wish to openly tell my parents that i like boys however i think the about people around them that they will attack my parents verbally and make their life worse and i stop your and tom's story it isbeautiful meaningful full of pure love that one wishes to have in today's world i hope you are living your life fully your story is one of the inspiring for my life and is going to be i too hope in future i have a beautiful and supprotable partner(love) and have a lovely life just like you and tom have rest in peace tom and i pray to god that people should be humble respectfull of eachother thank you for sharing your lovely story

  • @romancox5386
    @romancox5386 3 місяці тому

    I getting tired of this victim mentality. Live your life. Nobody cares of you are gay or straight.

  • @John-tz2tx
    @John-tz2tx 3 місяці тому

    No

  • @Лиза-н7ш2л
    @Лиза-н7ш2л 3 місяці тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🎉

  • @JennaSeelye
    @JennaSeelye 4 місяці тому

    I’m here in 2024. Love wins. Love will always win.

  • @craiglambert2131
    @craiglambert2131 5 місяців тому

    I tried to watch the documentary on Netflix this week, but apparently, it’s no longer available. So, I have yet to see this documentary, but I will say kudos to Shane for being a rock star. He was able to keep Tom and his story alive despite Tom's family's attempts to silence and erase him from Tom’s life. BRIDEGROOM celebrates Tom's live and what he and Shane had. It also keeps Tom's death from being in vain! Rest in eternal peace, Thomas Lee Bridegroom (04/22/1982 - 05/07/2011)! If people are ever in the Knox/Winamac, Indiana, area. Tom is buried at the Winamac Cemetery, 414 South 50 West, Winamac, IN 46996. Please pay your respects to a courageous man!

  • @marcmont7944
    @marcmont7944 5 місяців тому

    I just turned 29 fifteen days ago (the same as Tom was when he passed away) and it feels strange to get to this point and realize how young he really was, I first saw Bridegroom when I was 21 and thought WTF? How awful it must feel to loose the love of your life under tragic circumstances and being threaten if showing up at his funeral just on his parents whim, just because they thought gay love shouldn’t be because “It’s a sin”. I mean, didn’t Tom’s dad go to Vietnam? How many people he must have killed? How come that’s not a sin but being gay is? Seriously that kind of boomers and their double standards really piss me off, when their time comes I really hope they regret everything they did to Shane and Tom.

  • @Mercury88-b7k
    @Mercury88-b7k 5 місяців тому

    This is an extremely sad story, all I can do is send my love from Scotland ❤❤

  • @LarryRuud
    @LarryRuud 6 місяців тому

    I just saw your documentary on streaming. It broke my heart. I laughed. I cried. You guys had a special connection. Hope your heart finds healing. I can only hope to find that. I thought I did once.

  • @Firode9856
    @Firode9856 8 місяців тому

    🙏❤️

  • @thomas8461
    @thomas8461 8 місяців тому

    I still think of you guys ♥️♥️

  • @ab.Skywalker104
    @ab.Skywalker104 8 місяців тому

    Break's me 2 this day. God bless.

  • @Jsf3rd
    @Jsf3rd 8 місяців тому

    ❤️

  • @alexandernixon169
    @alexandernixon169 8 місяців тому

    May God bless you, now and in the future, and may Tom rest in peace until you both meet again on a far distant shore but in much brighter light where love is sovereign and The Sovereign is Love its self.

  • @417Theory
    @417Theory 10 місяців тому

    I have ZERO respect for Tom's family. They're disgusting!

  • @jmosher93
    @jmosher93 10 місяців тому

    Shane, i just watched your movie on Tubi. Thank you for sharing your story ❤️

  • @RichNDNGuy
    @RichNDNGuy 11 місяців тому

    Shane, im so late to this video. Im so sorry for your loss. You are a very sweet smart young man. Thank you for standing up and using your VOICE. Much ❤ from North Carolina

  • @RichNDNGuy
    @RichNDNGuy 11 місяців тому

    Shane i just finished watching the documentary. You did great! Definitely honored Tom and from pix and videos ive seen you two truly loved each other. Thank you for sharing your story, your kindness even in your pain and for making a change. Much love ❤️ from North Carolina ❤️

  • @boremake-bd7jn
    @boremake-bd7jn 11 місяців тому

    I miss you😭

  • @joshuarcarr
    @joshuarcarr 11 місяців тому

    Thank you so much for sharing your story! I just saw the documentary and your UA-cam video for the first time. Thank you for reminding me that love is possible, that LOVE is LOVE! I wish you all of the happiness in the world!

  • @michaelwagner1279
    @michaelwagner1279 Рік тому

    Thank you so much for sharing these wonderful memories of your beautiful Tom, what a wonderful man he seemed to be. Hope you are slowly healing Sir. Much respect for you both and my most sincere condolences.

  • @michaelwagner1279
    @michaelwagner1279 Рік тому

    I am 61 and have just watched Bridegroom again for the second time, I cry every time I see it. I am so so very sorry for the incredibly tragic loss of Tom. To see such true love and friendship was a wonderful thing to witness so thank you for sharing that part of your personal life. I have watched, I have listened and I have learned. Tom would be so very proud of the man you became and keeping his memory alive. Again my deepest condolences.

  • @adambeeable
    @adambeeable Рік тому

    Whatever happened to you? You totally fell off the face of the Earth.

  • @jamesking6404
    @jamesking6404 Рік тому

    Tom was a amazing young man I wish that I could met him he was beautiful human being

  • @glennvanbuggenum5128
    @glennvanbuggenum5128 Рік тому

    I hope his family has seen this and everyone looks down with hatred on them.. disgraceful

  • @jamesking6404
    @jamesking6404 Рік тому

    Shane We hear you you and Tom will always be together ❤️ even if you find someone else Tom will their with ❤️ Love

  • @judyfriedman4446
    @judyfriedman4446 Рік тому

    I am 65, straight and never been truly loved. By anyone. Never in a truly committed relationship. This story while heartbreaking is also so beautiful to me. How lucky these 2 were even for such a short time. How lucky couples are they get to enjoy life together, even for a short time. Traveling, sharing everything...something I long for but will never have. And Shane was also blessed to find a second love. All my best wishes to him and Rayvon. And shame on anyone that is down on love! It is precious.

  • @pamelaperkins256
    @pamelaperkins256 Рік тому

    Ive watched your movie and purchased it also and from time to time I continue to watch it. Your story is so beautiful and bittersweet. You can see / feel how much you loved each other ❤ What you are doing for the LGBTQ community reinforces that Toms passing was not in vain. TG that you were both fortunate to have each other in this life for the time you did and look forward to seeing each other again on the other side 💖😇

  • @Moha-v6c
    @Moha-v6c Рік тому

    My condolences to u shane I'm Mo from a country called somalia idk if u know it. Btw It's end of 2023 feel like i used to live under-rock bcs i haven't seen this documentary I'm on same boat as tom i don't have a lover but coming out to my family is life and death and i don't think I'll ever risk my life. Whenever i see the hope and the faith u two had to each i could never stop crying #EqualLoveEqualrights

  • @lorettahinkle9457
    @lorettahinkle9457 Рік тому

    We played this at my grandsons funeral in April. He was 2 1/2 years old. Hardest thing I've gone through. He is definitely in the arms of Jesus.

  • @reneeq3122
    @reneeq3122 Рік тому

  • @BrendaDuhaime-uy7kh
    @BrendaDuhaime-uy7kh Рік тому

    This was a beautiful slide show thanks u can see the love they have for each other u guys were lucky to have each other I'm sorry for your loss Shane and I hope that your happy now u deserve it tom would want that for u. hold toms memories forever rip Tom u will be missed

  • @margaretmccallum8525
    @margaretmccallum8525 Рік тому

    31/08/23.once again i watch this video . Heartbreaking and extremely emotional . Wherever you are Tom may you rest in peace . Shane has certainly madexa difference in advocating on your behalf for the right to marry your partner . Time moves on but nothing can change the past .. Lest we forget Tap Tap Tap xxxx

  • @loriduhaime9583
    @loriduhaime9583 Рік тому

    I'm so glad that u got ur happily ever after I know tom is smiling down at both of u I'm so proud of u Shane for making this a better life for everyone love is love

    • @Mralpan
      @Mralpan Місяць тому

      They split up in 2019

  • @loriduhaime9583
    @loriduhaime9583 Рік тому

    Omg such a great tribute to him he had so many memories I'm glad that he had Shane in his life. Tom was always happy in every single picture. Rip Tom u will be missed and thanks Shane for the awesome tribute

  • @margaretmccallum8525
    @margaretmccallum8525 Рік тому

    2- 08-2023-just watched this video again after many .years and still find it very emotional . Time changes nothing but we have moved on . Marraiges are now legal Between same sex . I hope you are now settled shane as your advocating for fay rights has made a difference worldwide x I often wonder how Toms parents feel now after the way they dealt with his death . Time is a healer they say and memories are golden . I wilk always remember Shane and Tom xxxxxx

  • @FrenchMusicalLover1
    @FrenchMusicalLover1 Рік тому

    I'd like to watch the documentary. Could someone tell me which platform can I access it?

  • @FrenchMusicalLover1
    @FrenchMusicalLover1 Рік тому

    I'd like to watch the documentary. Could someone tell me which platform can I access it?

  • @НадеждаКоломийцева-п1т

    А жему радуется эта тётка, что женщины уже не нужны, педарасы рожать будут??? УЖАС!!! Гореть вам в аду!

    • @Bazroshan
      @Bazroshan Рік тому

      Ты выглядишь немного расстроенным. Садитесь и выпейте чашечку вкусного чая.

  • @dimaedmonton
    @dimaedmonton Рік тому

    Its too bad rhey are no longer together but i am sure Shane is happy , and

    • @jmwilson6792
      @jmwilson6792 Рік тому

      Really??? Are you sure? How do you know?

  • @jjmarie3472
    @jjmarie3472 Рік тому

    So, YEARS later. It's still like this here Shane... I absolutely hate this town. So many are ignorant and then arrogant about being ignorant. Also very hypocritical. I still think of Tom often ❤ Also, if you or anyone who can contact Shane. Let me know where his grave is. I will make sure to visit it every year and leave something from you!!!❤

  • @dimaedmonton
    @dimaedmonton Рік тому

    tap tap tap

  • @dimaedmonton
    @dimaedmonton Рік тому

    You are a very inspiring person . After i saw your movie , it had touched me so so much . Thank you for sharing your story coz it does matter and making this world a better place . tap tap tap